Decision-Time: Hire a Live-In Nanny?

Hiring a nanny has advantages and disadvantages, as we have discussed.  Hiring a live-in nanny adds an entirely new of pros and cons.

Pros:

  • Convenience
  • Flexibility
  • Nanny won’t “miss the bus” or get stuck in traffic
  • Evening “babysitter” (on occasion, usually if you swap hours or pay overtime)
  • Less expensive (because you’re providing room and board)

Cons:

  • Lack of space (challenges if you have a smaller home)
  • Giving up privacy
  • Nanny can’t “leave work behind”
  • Personal issues
  • Figuring out who disciplines the child when parents and the nanny are home
  • Kids might play favorites (“Mom, I want the nanny to put me to bed”!)

Weigh the pros and cons before you make the leap.  Discuss them thoroughly with your family.  And make a decision that’s right for you and your children.